As my friend says “can things change so much in a few months??” true it is a big question that i posed to myself aswell…but the world is ever changing..but at a personal level i am against changes posibbaly that is what makes me feel so uncomfortable when changes are forced on me…I am starting to learn that now..but the question is do we have to change as individuals because things around change?? well answer is yes and a no..confused…all goes back to my basics i guess..”REWRITE RULES RETAIN VALUES” . I never react and always try my best to respond insted..but however the rewriting ouccurs in one place i guess if i dont react to certain situations at that instant, i will be in a turmoil till i respond..but in a way i like this moment of turmoil because these are my testing grounds, these times of turmoil are the ones which have to be seen as times of peace. It helps in changing enragement into engagement and reactions into responses…if my first reaction is right from my soul, I am sure that would reflect in my response too…however do you understand the difference between react and respond here???
Well it really doesnt matter how people look at this attitude of mine even the ones totally involved in this or are a part of this period the only reason is i respect individuals for what they are and dont expect or like people changing according to the situation or as they say “go with the flow” kinds when does a rolling stone gather mass?? because it is a stone..however snow on the other hand being soft can make a huge snow ball and gather mass as it rolls even though snow rolls down and might be so soft that it melts at a salt sprinkle or a little sunlight, it never stops to gather mass…
Let us now concider something like people changing (changing values) as things around change…true one can never stop all the changes happening around him/her and might be forced to be a part of the change…but sit back and think again though it is difficult, if you try n make up your mind not to be a part of the change..will it not make you feel better? Yes this might sound like stopping yourself from learning ..but beleive me it is not stopping yourself but it is starting to learn yourself…becuase when you dont go with the change, you are creating a change yourself..undeerstand?? and there is nobody with you where you are now…basically why did the situation change? is it not because people forsee a failure and hence want a change to happen..does that not mean giving up? I strongly feel if you have decided you have to think and stick to your values because you beleive in it …and you ca rewrite rules to retain your values…it is your game and you set the rules..hard rules tough ones hard for yourself to follow sometimes but neve let go of your values never…call me a kid call me a loser call me a philosopher call idealistic all in my favour those are some of the best compliments i get…because people who go with the flow termed as “SOCIETY” see this as antisocial and lies and call me blimy ..and i call the society blimy…nothing ends but there is always a new begining
cheers itz been a while since i wrote on my blog.. I am eagerly waiting for my next update myself 🙂